If I had the last few days to do over again, here is what I would do differently, but this was my first time, so here are some highlights.
The 2015 Minneapolis AWP convention really began Thursday April 9. There were a few things on the schedule for Wednesday, like registration, setting up the book fair, and an awards ceremony for publishers. On the previous Sunday, the St. Paul Pioneer Press had devoted a page to all of the off-site activities, and it seemed there were as many off-site activities as on-site. If I had it all to do over again, I wouldn’t have had a bad cold!
I read the entire schedule and picked out my seminars. I had a few moments of serendipity, when you feel like the stars align just for you. The first, was when I chose what sessions I was going to, and added them to my schedule, I did this on my laptop. Then, I downloaded the App to my android phone. I logged in through google plus. At first my choices did not appear on the app and I had one of these oh-no moments when I realized I would have to re-add them manually, but then, when I sat down to do this, my schedule appeared! I read in the facebook thread that nobody else was able to get this to work, and that actually someone from AWP said that if you choose your schedule on your computer it will NOT appear on your app, which is counter-intuitive to me. Why not? It’s your account. There were doubters, who disbelieved me. I said, really, it happened. You can ask my patient husband who was sitting right there next to me when it happened.
The second, was, I saw the name of one of my teachers from 5 years ago appear over and over in the schedule. The fact I’d remember his name after 5 years is amazing enough! He was my favorite creative writing teacher, and taught me how to write prose (I’m still in the toddler stages!).
I arrived later than planned on Wednesday, I knew of two off-site events, one was a short story slam at Brit’s Pub and another was going to be an event with my former teacher I just mentioned. Registration was a process where you would approach a computer and print your badge. The girl next to me gave a very self-satisfied grumph when she printed hers out in half the time it took me. We were given a book bag filled with materials and that was it.
I stayed at my aunt and uncle’s place about 10 miles away. Much more convenient than the 60 mile drive back home. While I was going to attempt hitting some off-site action, my aunt texted me, asking if I was going to join them for dinner. Since I had mentioned, a few times, that I would just be staying over, but not be around for dinner, her question became more along the “I’m your aunt, I miss you, I am not asking I am telling.” And since I was a little under the weather anyways, I decided to give myself over to a childlike role & bask in the wonderfulness that is my family.
My aunt lives in this fantastic house. I hope to write about that one day. It does serve as the setting for Nuts to Al, in a vaguely-specific way, but there is so much more to this place, you would have to see to believe. It isn’t on the scale of, say, The House On The Rock, which is gargantuan, gaudy, and goes on for miles, but it might be a teeny-scale version of one of these major attractions, like, say, even the Winchester house. I would say, it would take a few more add-ons to be that much of a museum, but you get the picture. I always think of them like my own Addams family. I was given the room that has its own bathroom. It felt like I was staying in a hotel. Their entire house is decorated in the mid-century modern style. In a future blog I will take pictures and post them for the lovers of mid-century modern style. In this room she has displayed all her favorite paintings. The bathroom is decorated with metallic bamboo wallpaper. The shower wall has a metallic gold sailboat scene, much like the skirt I’m wearing (Above). I picked up that skirt in a high-end consignment shop in St. Paul. It is French. I absolutely love thrift stores.
The first night I slept like crap because, let’s face it, who sleeps well in a strange bed? I got up early and headed to Minneapolis. Day one: Thursday, of course, hitting rush-hour traffic, and some kind of gross rain-snow mix? Glad I don’t drive that every day.
Because I ran through the route the day before you’d think I would know what I was doing? Not so. I had to drive around and around, one-ways, and one-ways before finding the entrance to the ramp.
Thursday, I texted my friend Elissa right away, while standing in line at the Dunn Brothers. In the convention center, there was a Dunn Brothers, a little Greek snack bar, a couple of vending machines. The food vendor, the Mill City Grill, has the basic convention schlock: cardboard burgers, limp fries, dry chicken sandwiches, hot dogs (what can I say), and soggy pretzels. There were a few places called a bar and lounge where alcohol was served but I was not feeling up to that.
Anyways, the lines for everything were LOOOONG, and I kept wondering why don’t they let any food trucks sit outside, or why weren’t there food trucks, maybe it wasn’t that time of year? It was miserable the first day, raining and sleeting and then, even snowing. People were loving it, people from other parts of the country, were like, thinking this was such a novelty. I overheard one couple say that they had never even SEEN snow before, and I thought, that is pretty amazing.
Minneapolis never ceases to amaze, and I am proud of this city, because it is a cultural mecca, it is unique, I’m sure foodies love such a variety of restaurants.
Which is why, it flummoxed me, and was so disappointing to have such poor choices at the event. I stood in line for a water machine that was selling waters for $3.50, it wasn’t taking anything but $1 bills, and the people ahead of me gave up, and because I didn’t give up, the people behind me started giving me shit. I had a What is wrong with you people? moment, but it passed, and I KEPT MY GODDAMNED WATER BOTTLE, and kept my mouth shut.
Two of the seminars were on multimedia writing, one was from the perspectives of the publisher and another from the perspective of writers, and that was where my teacher Mark was speaking. Nice to hear those two perspectives. As a visual artist, I have been to the other side, workshops where the artist incorporates writing. Why does this continue to be such a perplexing topic? People are still confused if you are an artist and a writer. Unless you do comic books or graphic novels. Mark, is a dadaist. He read from his new book, which I bought, and I was thrilled, to say he is funny in a David Sedaris way, but I don’t necessarily want to compare him to David Sedaris. When he saw me he recognized me right away, he passed by the other women waiting to talk to him, came around the table, and gave ME a big hug! Nobody else got one! *gloat*
Other social media forms, Twitter and Instagram, are new to me, and I decided to tweet and post whenever I could, and I posted a few things to facebook, but mostly my facebook friends are people from school who are -I’m guessing- bored with the idea of a writers conference, let alone an actual writers conference, and I had my share of snarky comments (aka jealous lol). Since I didn’t have great internet connection (my phone kept telling me in big red letter that my passwords were being stolen) I used my own data, and by Friday, I had used my whole data plan, which usually lasts a month. I was pleased, however, I had a few of my tweets favorited and retweeted. What else can a novice ask for?
Elissa called me back when she got to the convention center, she was at the coat check, she said, and I practically bumped right into her. I have not seen her either, in five years, and it was great to see her again. At that point I just wanted to put myself on cruise control and go along with what she wanted to see and do for a while. It’s nice to have friends so you can give yourself a break from having to be ON all the time. We grabbed a couple of crappy burgers at the Mill Shitty Grill, without buns. She is trying to be gluten-free. It was a struggle to get forks. By the time we were done eating we were able to catch the last poem being read by one of her friends, to a crowded room with standing-room only.
She was excited to show me that she was published in a poetry anthology with some other brilliant Minnesota poets, including the Minnesota Poet Laureate. It was an honor to be included in this anthology. I was anxious to show her my book, which I self-published, and she had a lot of questions for me too.
Was it a mistake to bring a self-published book to this convention, if I was trying to find a publisher? The answer wasn’t clear.
So we visited the main stage of the auditorium where there were publishers on a panel addressing this very question. I was surprised when Elissa raised her hand and asked it for me! Yay for friends!
The woman in front of us, after the panel was convened, turned around, and said, she was a publisher, and that it would be better, at this point, to be calling the book I had printed a prototype. That the role of the publisher is their own creative input, in the choosing of the font, the pairing of author and artist, etc. Which, is all fine and good, but that the book, printed once on blurb, self-published by me, choosing font, layout, color, writing and illustrating the book, has been sent to Amazon, and therefore, considered published. And so it is, I am the publisher. Schematics? Quickly, Elissa produced her poetry and asked the publisher to give it a look, which, kindly, she obliged, and told my friend that this was not her type of poetry, and that she wouldn’t accept it, it wasn’t edgy, it wasn’t exciting.
This enormous room is filled with vendors at their booths and tables, lined up row after row, maybe over a thousand vendors, everyone selling books and merchandise, giving away pens, magazines, candy. An arm reaches toward me with a plastic cup of beer from his tap. It is the first beer I’ve tasted in weeks, and it tastes good.
I am overwhelmed by the amount of people and daunted by approaching each table. The intention with each approach is to discern whether or not you’d be a suitable match. Then ask about their submission guidelines, take away the information, and get to work.
There are no agents here, that are visible. The publishers here do have open submission guidelines. They are all small publishers and independent publishers. I am thinking that my training and background is more aligned with publishing. Why didn’t I know about this? Why didn’t I become a publisher? The thought quickly passes. I wouldn’t have wanted that! *Monkey mind*
There are so many of these tables, how do I find out BEFORE having to go from one to another, which one publishes children’s books??? It is like viewing goldfish at the conservatory, goldfish that you can talk to, but like goldfish, they all want to be fed. They are all gazing at you with their goldfish eyes and their searching lips, wondering where the food is, or in this case, your cash.
I did manage to connect with a few publishers who would be a perfect match, ones taking submissions for art and writing, and after a while, because there is only so much time in a day, I decided that will be a good start. There was one publisher, who used to publish children’s books, but have not in a long time, and they did not have any more answers to that.
In the evening, Elissa talked me in to going with her to an off-site event at the Icehouse. I’ve never been there before, but it’s right across the street from the Caravelle Restaurant, a Twin Cities institution as far as Vietnamese restaurants go, it has been our favorite for years, we consider the best Pho. The Icehouse is relatively new and their menu is considered American cuisine, but it’s nouveau to me.
The Icehouse hosted a reading by the writers who are published by Sleet, and the emcee started by introducing themselves as “Sleet at Icehouse!” climate-appropriate.
Elissa has an MFA from Hamline, and all of the people there, were also from the MFA program at Hamline, it was a full house already, we had an excellent view of the stage from the balcony. The couple next to us brought their 9-year-old daughter, who was constantly in motion, I don’t think that she sat still for a single second, until they brought out her birthday cupcake. The mom read a poem about her.
At that moment I felt this disconnected feeling, this feeling that I did not belong here at all. I am not a writer! am I? Symbolism was staring me right in the face. The more comfortable Caravelle across the street, yellow awnings viewed from my perch, represented my Art life. Here I was across the street, entertaining my writer within, the Icehouse represented my Writer life.
Literary and literally I was an outsider, a newbie. I did not go to Hamline with these other people, I did not get my MFA. Did I need an MFA? That was my next question, my question for Friday.
We were done with the Sleet readings, and it was later than I thought. Had we really been there for 5 hours? How could that be possible? I ate very sparingly, just a beet salad and a flatbread pizza, which was burnt by the way, with raw shrimps on top, I would say it was a FAIL. I also had a hot toddy for my throat. That was nice. My total bill came to $45! The salad was about the size of my forefingers and thumbs together making a circle, the pizza not much larger. That was my big night out.
I was exhausted. I’d been there since 8:00am. I dropped Elissa off at her car, and headed back to my aunt’s. I was embarrassed they were up, waiting for me, at 10:30pm. She just wanted to show me how to turn on the coffee maker in the morning.
Friday, I let myself sleep in, and have a leisurely morning. I felt like a princess! We watched the morning news just like home. My aunt made us scrambled eggs. I luxuriated in my coffee and juice. No standing in a long line! Ha! Suckers!
I rolled into the convention parking garage at about 11:30. I didn’t even think about lunch, but decided to give the Greek vendor a try. I ordered a hummus and pita. What I got were three postage-stamp sized triangles and a doll-size ball of hummus. Face it, I’ve had bigger appetizers on my Bloody Mary. It was $3.50! While eating, another writer shared my table. We visited. She came all the way to this convention from Denver. I felt the urge to confess my doubts, my doubts that I was even a writer, that maybe I was over-reaching. I didn’t really know why I was here, or why I was here for all of the 3+ days. Which is another option. People can attend on Saturday only.
Friday started out strong & I began to wilt around mid afternoon, growing more discouraged, even as the clouds broke and the sun began shining through the wall of windows and the translucent skylights illuminating layers of escalators carrying people to four levels of partitioned rooms, shuffling around the masses expected to total about 15,000 in attendance, and avoiding any other bottlenecks besides the long lines that persisted all day at Dunn Brothers.
Eventually, I decided to quit for the day, tempted by another text from my aunt and another invitation to join them for dinner. I told my husband, who was sick at home, croupy cough, one more night, just one more night! Of course, there were all kinds of temptations happening on a Friday night, the ballroom at the Hilton had dancing on both Friday and Saturday night, not to mention all the rest of the city, I was only getting bits and pieces about the night before and what I missed going on at First Avenue, only a few blocks away. The list of parties was endless! And me, with this croupy cough myself, tired and dragging! Who was this wimp, I wondered, barely recognizing this girl who was driving away from instead of toward the excitement.
Saturday lived up to its promise to be a better day. I’d gone to bed exhausted, sleeping better each night, running out of NyQuil. Once again my aunt’s songlike voice lulled me into enjoying the expertly scrambled eggs & black coffee done to perfection. I finally made it to the convention center, now an expert at the route, by the 10:30am presentation on the bookfair stage.
The topic was On Writing a First Book. The presenters had just recently published their first books and were here now talking to us from the stage.
Be grateful or the failure. You’re not ready until you’re ready.
Write to write, not for any outside reason.
DO THE WORK.
Check your ego.
It was interesting to me that all 5 of the panelists had been at the MFA program in Iowa. Four of them were grateful for the experience. It was difficult for all of them. The fifth panelist didn’t say she regretted it, but that she wasn’t too happy about it either. It was interesting to hear an honest opinion on what even being in an MFA program is all about, since I had considered it, only vaguely. I knew Elissa was in the one at Hamline and I had thought about applying. It’s a personal decision. It is an expensive route to buy yourself things like credibility, an excuse to write, and a route to being published.
You know you’re a writer when… ? When you’re not writing, are you miserable?
I’m going to conclude today’s entry here, which is too long already. I have more to write about Saturday, the rest of Saturday, which was magical, because we listened to a panel on fairy tales, and the moderator, who held a PhD in fairy tales, which in itself, is magical. In my next blog!